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Table 1 Promoting the growth of self-regulation development and co-regulation from birth through age 2: ECSEL approach.

From: The importance of emotional competence and self-regulation from birth: a case for the evidence-based emotional cognitive social early learning approach

Developmental stage

Characteristics of self-regulation

How caregivers can provide co-regulation

ECSEL techniques and tools

Infancy (birth to age 1)

Orient attention away from stressors

Engage caregivers as resources for comfort

Begin to self-soothe

Interact in warm responsive ways

Anticipate and respond quickly to child’s needs

Provide physical and emotional comfort when child is stressed

Modify environment to decrease demands/stress

Physiological techniques

CTEE

Toddlerhood (ages 1–2, approximately)

Begin to select and shift attention (attentional control)

Adjust behavior to achieve simple goals

Delay gratification and inhibit responses for short periods when there is structure and support

Emotions are stronger than cognitive regulation

Feelings of attachment support prosocial goals

Reassure/calm child when upset by removing child from situations or speaking calmly and giving affection

Model self-calming strategies

Teach rules and re-directing to regulate behavior

CTEE

Peace Corner

Mood Mirror

Emotion Chart

Emotion Books